So... I've hypnotized quite a few people now. This is a relatively big change in my life. Just a few years ago, I was an anonymous guy. I read MCstories, the various hypno blogs, . I loved it all but I never in my life considered being able to influence someone's inner thoughts, create a secondary personality or even set up an orgasm trigger.
What I'm trying to get at, is that I've now hypnotized quite a few people. A large majority of those people have enjoyed it and even came back for more.
Hypnosis is not all powerful, it's not magic, and it's not even all that effective all on it's own. What makes it effective is the care and the rapport that you build. relating to the people you hypnotize as people, friends, framily first and only second as your subjects to be played with is the key to having them have an enjoyable time the first time, and many repeat tries. When you play with hypnosis, you are leading people through an experience, holding their hands, you are their guide and if they dont have a fun time they wont take the tour with you the second time. no matter how well you led them, they have to enjoy where they go, they have to enjoy your company they have to enjoy what they feel when they go there and most importantly they have to feel safe. If any of those things are not true, then you will do nothing but first sessions.
I'm going to re-emphasize this point - Your hypno play is always about the other person. satisfying their needs and curiosity while keeping them feeling safe should be your first, if not your only priority.
Take a minute to re-read the above sentence before I go on.
Ok now ... what's the fun in that? well. trust is always the foundation of whatever you REALLY want to do.
you desparately get turned on by the thought of an alternate personality that is into the smell of fish and enjoys juggling fuzzy dice... by all means make that your goal... but, you have to find someone who is both agreeable to that, and feels that they trust that you would do nothing to their detriment.
Of course all of these are mutual and I will write a post about the faceless (genderless?) hypno addicts one day. But for now. all you budding hypnotists svengalis and mind controllers, your first job is to make others enjoy this little hobby of ours. if you'd like to have them return and tell their friends, be someone worth telling their friends about.
Till next time
- Sharky
